Okay, so I need other people's opinions...I just want to know if you agree, or if I'm thinking a bit on the shallow side. Here goes:
So in a "hypothetical" situation ;) [[bahahaha...that was just for you, Rachel]]...
Could you ever date anyone with the same name as an ex...I mean, not just like the same first name, but like the same [[well, hispanic-ized version]] last name as well, and not just any ex, but the most recent? [[an vs. eno]]
Am I the only one that thinks that weird?
I mean, first off, if you are...shouldn't JimTwo at least blow JimOne out of the water? Like to nearly erase the JimOne? Shouldn't JimTwo have to be that much better than JimOne for you to even take it into consideration?
This guy was negative points before he even had a chance to negate those points on his own. Sorry, buddy.
Thing is, JimOne set the bar pretty high...and well JimTwo is pretty damn short.
But the one thing I do know that is shallow, is that with this JimTwo character, most of my shoes couldn't be worn and would go to waste? I know I'm not the only girl who'd rather not date someone shorter than them.
But that's beside the point. Well, not completely beside the point because that did make those points lessen more than what they already did when I learned what his name was. Eek. Knee-deep negative. Ouch.
But for real, what would you do?
How do you let someone down easily? Especially if they haven't flat out said they were interested? HELP! lol
I can't just plain out [[unless he finally says something]] be like: "Dude, this is never gonna happen; You have the same name as my last boyfriend."
I mean, the same name and shortness aren't the only things that are influencing this matter, but it's just flat out not going to happen with this guy. I can't see myself with him in the long-run. I'm not gonna waste my time and his. And he has many awkward moments. I mean, I like to make things awkward and kill moments....but this would be beyond that sometimes.
Would it be completely bitchy of me, if he finally says something to me, to say that it's never going to happen, mostly because of the name? or something along those lines?
I mean, I do work with this guy, so I definitely wouldn't want to date him for that reason as well. But, oddly enough, well, not so oddly, because wonderful timing always seems to find me [[and by wonderful, i mean the opposite]]...I was flipping through a Women's Health magazine this morning and tell me why there was a part in the "ASK THE GUY NEXT DOOR" section: "How do I send the 'friends only' message to a coworker who is really into me? I don't want to hurt his feelings."
Funny how it seemed to hit the nail on the head, huh?
This Matt Bean's [[the "guy next door"]] answer to this question gave a couple of suggestions. But he did end saying that you could use the "I don't date coworkers" excuse...though, that could backfire...and leave the guy holding out hope, even if you know there's not a chance in hell.
Hmmm...
Anyway, so what's your take?
Thursday, September 10, 2009
eighteenth [[if you have something good going for you, why ruin it?]]
so i was listening to the countdown the other day, and i thought this song was so dead on. thank you kellie pickler!..and taylor swift...at it again :)
the videos actually pretty funny too [[it's under the lyrics!]]
they say it, well...sing it, so well -->
Best Days Of Your Life
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met 'till you were making me cry
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life
Ain't it a shame?
A shame that everytime you hear my name
Brought up in a casual conversation
You can't think straight
And ain't it sad?
You can forget about what we had
Take a look at her and do you like what you see?
Or do you wish it was me
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life
And does she know?
Know about the times you used to hold me
Wrapped me in your arms and how you told me
I'm the only one
I heard about
Yeah, someone told me once, when you were out
She went a little crazy ran her mouth about me
Ain't jealousy funny?
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life
...with me was a fairytale love
I was head-over-heals 'till you threw away us
And it's just too bad you've, already had the best days
The best days of your life
I heard you're gonna get married
Have a nice little family
Live out my dreams with someone new
But, I've been told that a cheater
Is always a cheater
I've got my pride, and she's got you...
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met 'till you were making me cry
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life...
Of your life
Oh, oh, yeah
You're gonna think of me
You're gonna think of me in your life
Oh, oh, yeah
It's a shame, it's a shame...
YouTube: Best Days of Your Life video
the videos actually pretty funny too [[it's under the lyrics!]]
they say it, well...sing it, so well -->
Best Days Of Your Life
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met 'till you were making me cry
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life
Ain't it a shame?
A shame that everytime you hear my name
Brought up in a casual conversation
You can't think straight
And ain't it sad?
You can forget about what we had
Take a look at her and do you like what you see?
Or do you wish it was me
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life
And does she know?
Know about the times you used to hold me
Wrapped me in your arms and how you told me
I'm the only one
I heard about
Yeah, someone told me once, when you were out
She went a little crazy ran her mouth about me
Ain't jealousy funny?
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life
...with me was a fairytale love
I was head-over-heals 'till you threw away us
And it's just too bad you've, already had the best days
The best days of your life
I heard you're gonna get married
Have a nice little family
Live out my dreams with someone new
But, I've been told that a cheater
Is always a cheater
I've got my pride, and she's got you...
'Cause I'll be there, in the back of your mind
From the day we met 'till you were making me cry
And it's just too bad, you've already had the best days
The best days of your life...
Of your life
Oh, oh, yeah
You're gonna think of me
You're gonna think of me in your life
Oh, oh, yeah
It's a shame, it's a shame...
YouTube: Best Days of Your Life video
seventeenth [[ Behind those eyes you hide.]]
So, I was doing yet another stupid myspace survey thing, and well...I always answer them with too much information, or very confusing information...that is unless you know what the heck the references mean that I make...a lot. Anyway, the question "Do you hate the last person you kissed?" came up...and of course, I couldn't just answer it with a hell yes or a no way like everyone else probably could/would. So, pretty much this is the first time I'll blog about this person [[well, second, but the first just references, 'tis all]]...which is actually probably a record for me. But, I think that he also played a part in that, given he wasn't another asshole. Those others just brought those certain "blogged" things onto themselves...well, mostly just one person. bahaha. So yeah--this is weird. But actually not the first time I've thought about this...it's more like the first time I've thought about this version of what was said in 10 Things I Hate About You. It's so common to see people use the poem that Julia Stiles' character, Kat Stratford, wrote about Heath Ledger's character, Patrick Verona, in that dang movie!...So I wanted to change it up...I mean, c'mon, everyone's life can't be exactly like that one, exactly the same...BORING! Anyway...writing this made me laugh...and think about things...but most importantly, it got me to write again...finally. It's been a while; it was time for another bit. So here goes [[and p.s. pardon my not flowy-ness on a few of the lines...just pretend it works...for my sake..and yours. haha]]:
DO YOU HATE THE LAST PERSON THAT YOU KISSED?
I hate the way he talks to me,
and the way he does his hair.
I hate the way he drives his car,
I hate it when he stares.
I hate that he only wears flip flops or vans
and sometimes the Toms that cost way more than a dime.
I hate him so much it makes me sick,
it even makes me rhyme.
I hate the way he's always right or just seems to make SO much sense,
I hate it when he lies.
I hate it when he makes me laugh,
even worse when he makes me cry.
I hate it that he made snot sculptures…
during a "serious" time,
I hate it that that artsy stuff is what makes him him,
but why else would I have like this guy named---whoa.
I hate the way we talked for over three hours,
The first time we hung out.
I hate the way I didn’t finish my steak and shake,
but I was just so taken with him.
I hate that it started with that place,
And “ended” with it too.
I hate it that he's not around,
and the fact that he doesn't call.
But mostly I hate the way I don't hate him,
not even close
not even a little bit
not even at all.
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DO YOU HATE THE LAST PERSON THAT YOU KISSED?
I hate the way he talks to me,
and the way he does his hair.
I hate the way he drives his car,
I hate it when he stares.
I hate that he only wears flip flops or vans
and sometimes the Toms that cost way more than a dime.
I hate him so much it makes me sick,
it even makes me rhyme.
I hate the way he's always right or just seems to make SO much sense,
I hate it when he lies.
I hate it when he makes me laugh,
even worse when he makes me cry.
I hate it that he made snot sculptures…
during a "serious" time,
I hate it that that artsy stuff is what makes him him,
but why else would I have like this guy named---whoa.
I hate the way we talked for over three hours,
The first time we hung out.
I hate the way I didn’t finish my steak and shake,
but I was just so taken with him.
I hate that it started with that place,
And “ended” with it too.
I hate it that he's not around,
and the fact that he doesn't call.
But mostly I hate the way I don't hate him,
not even close
not even a little bit
not even at all.
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Wednesday, September 2, 2009
sixteenth [[virgin lips]]
why...
...do i always manage to find the "perfect" songs or stories for certain situations?
its like im a magnet. i just can't seem to be a magnet for the right guy right now. a magnet for assholes, and boys that also like boys, and terrible timing...but apparently not for the right person...yet. how wonderful. this article made me laugh though, but not necessarily because it was funny...it just made me not feel so completely OUTRAGEOUS. it made me feel a little better about myself and my...hmm...Morals. lol
read the BLOG, wait...I guess you already are. im going on a not-being-too-mean spree. well, when it comes to blog-writing, apparently. its weird. but, i guess you could take it upon yourself to REALLY piss me off, so that I could have more material :) hahaha JK.
maybe ill give up writing "mean" blogs for lent. hmmm...wouldnt that be something? hahaha pah. yeah. like i could go 40-ish days without writing something the least bit angry-sounding.
maybe i will.
anyway...i'll stop with the pre-bloggageness now! lol
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So, I was looking around at random stuff as usual and came across this. I'm glad I'm not the only one that has thought like this woman...maybe my actions [[or lack there of]] aren't quite to her extent...but they're not far from it. And, I totally understand her reasoning...but I do have some expceptions. *cough
You should read this though...interesting...and you probably won't agree...but whatev. Let me know what you think:
http://www.dailynebraskan.com/opinion/trueblood_first_kiss_worth_waiting_for_perfect_person-1.1483060
TRUEBLOOD: First kiss worth waiting for perfect person
Bethany Trueblood
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Published: Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Updated: Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I’ll be the first to admit it: I’m 20 years old, and I still possess virgin lips.
This shocked one of my friends, who then asked why I have never been kissed.
I explained that the opportunity has never presented itself. I told him that I’m not one to randomly “hook-up” with anyone, nor have I been in a dating relationship. It was my dateless life that shocked him even more.
The lack of kisses and dates, I told him, goes hand-in-hand with my perpetual search to find the “right one,” so he who could be smooched has to first pass that test.
As I observe the number of physically intimate lives around me, I begin to wonder why I care so much about saving my untouched lips for “the one,” especially when it seems unlikely that a guy is saving his lips for me.
A quote by Drew Barrymore’s character Josie Geller in “Never Been Kissed,” one of my favorite movies, helps depict my reasoning:
“The right guy, he’s out there. I’m just not gonna go kiss a whole bunch of losers to get to him.”
It’s not kissing guys that Josie is concerned with; it’s kissing the right guy that she cares about.
Something I’ve been thinking about lately is what is meant by a kiss. Why do we choose to pucker up or not? I thought it would be interesting to get some input on the matter, so I conducted a couple surveys: one for people who have been kissed and one for those who have not. About 70 people took the first survey and 14 the latter. Across the board, many seem to associate kissing with romantic feelings and displaying affection for someone. Aside from that, though, the meaning of a kiss varies from person to person.
According to some of the responses, a kiss can be a greeting among friends, a tender farewell, or a way of “sealing a moment” in one’s memory. To others it could be the result of a mutually exclusive attraction between two people, an emotional union or a sign of devotion. A kiss might also be a romantic gesture meant to progress a relationship beyond friendship. In addition to these things, a number of people say kissing is simply fun.
For those experienced in lip-locking, the number of one’s past kissing partners generally exceeded more than five people, and the need to be in a relationship to exchange kisses was only somewhat important. Many of these people started kissing in their early teen years and say that they do not have any regrets about their first kiss; some, however, do wish that their first kiss was with their current dating partner. For those who have never been kissed, being in a relationship first is very important. Also, the strong consensus for the few who have never kissed is that a kiss should only be shared between two people who are in a committed relationship with one another.
I can strongly identify with the latter group of people and their thoughts about kissing. A kiss is something very intimate and special that should not be given lightly. I would concur that a kiss is an expression of one’s complete devotion and love for another person: something to be exchanged when two people know that they are truly in love.
Every guy I meet could potentially be my husband, but if he’s not mine, then he’s going to be somebody else’s. I want to be extra careful about who I share my affections with out of respect for the guy and for his future wife; I want my future husband to do the same for me. I don’t like the thought of my spouse-to-be exchanging saliva with other girls; when I kiss him someday, I want to know that I’m kissing him only, and not lips that may have traces of others’ DNA on them.
Although kissing may be a lot of fun, I wonder, what’s the point in kissing someone if you’re not in a committed relationship? It might be good “practice,” but I would rather enjoy the awkwardness of a first kiss with the man I want to be with for the rest of my life than become a pro at kissing guys who will one day belong to other women. I am okay with waiting to kiss a guy until I know that he is “the right one;” as Josie puts it, “the only person that you’re supposed to kiss for the rest of your life.”
As my survey results show, a kiss is what a person makes it out to be. It’s completely up to you to decide how and with whom you choose to display your affection. As for my “virgin lips,” they are going to keep waiting, no matter how long that might be.
Bethany Trueblood is a sophomore news editorial major. Reach her at bethanytrueblood@dailynebraskan.com.
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bahahahahaha
so this guy was one of the many responses to her article...it made me crack up hardcore...even if he was kind of a jerk to her...its still funny:
JUSTIN Wed Feb 18 2009 16:00
Look, I know it isn’t cool for a 21 year old guy like me to admit it, but I am proud of my status: I am a senior in college, and I’m still a hand virgin.
New friends are often surprised when they find out about this aspect of my life. They badger me about my life, and my goals, and what led to this point, as if it was just that easy. I tell them the same thing every time: it isn’t that I’m opposed to holding hands. It is just that the right girl has never entered my life. I’m just not the type of guy to go around clasping palms all willy-nilly, nor have I ever been in a tactile relationship.
The lack of finger-snuggling, you see, is part of my long-term goal to find The One. I long ago decided that I had to be sure that I wasn’t giving up my hand to just anyone. I never actually got around to determining criteria on who is The One but I’m working on the assumption here that angels with trumpets will give me the heads up when she wanders by.
I’m been pondering lately what exactly what it means to hold someone’s hand. Is it nature or nurture? Is it a result of what is in our society or what is in our genes? Or perhaps what is in our jeans? I decided to take a couple of surveys. Of the 50 people I surveyed, 37 of them had held hands before, while 13 had not.
According to some of the responses, hand-holding can be a greeting among friends, a tender farewell, or a way of “sealing a deal” that doesn’t involve paperwork. To others it could be the result of a mutually exclusive attraction between two people, an emotional union or a sign of devotion. Holding hands might also be a romantic gesture meant to progress a relationship beyond friendship. In addition to these things, a number of people say hand-holding is simply fun.
For those experienced in palm-grasping, the number of one’s past hand partners generally exceeded more than five people, and the need to be in a relationship to grab fingers was only somewhat important. Many of these people started holding in their early teen years and say that they do not have any regrets about their first hand; some, however, do wish that their first hand had been their current dating partner’s. For those who have never been held a hand, being in a relationship first is very important. Also, the strong consensus for the few who have never held a hand is that a holding should only be shared between two people who are in a committed relationship with one another.
I can strongly identify with the latter group of people and their thoughts about hand-holding. A hand is something very intimate and special that should not be touched lightly. I would concur that a grasp is an expression of one’s complete devotion and love for another person: something to be exchanged when two people know that they are truly in love.
Every girl I meet could potentially be my wife, but if she’s not mine, then she’s going to be somebody else’s. I want to be extra careful about whom I share my affections with out of respect for the girl and for her future husband; I want my future wife to do the same for me. I don’t like the thought of my spouse-to-be exchanging palm sweat with other guys; when I clutch her hand tight someday, I want to know that I’m touching her only, and not hands that may have traces of others’ DNA on them.
Although holding hands may be a lot of fun, I wonder, what’s the point in holding someone’s hand if you’re not in a committed relationship? It might be good “practice,” but I would rather enjoy the awkwardness of a first hand-hold with the woman I want to be with for the rest of my life than become a pro at holding the hands of girls who will one day belong to other men. I am okay with waiting to hold a girl’s hand until I know that she is “the right one;” as H. Jackson Brown, Jr. puts it, “Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.”
As my survey results show, a hand is what a person makes it out to be. It’s completely up to you to decide how and with whom you choose to display your affection. As for my “virgin hands,” they are going to keep waiting, no matter how long that might be.
...do i always manage to find the "perfect" songs or stories for certain situations?
its like im a magnet. i just can't seem to be a magnet for the right guy right now. a magnet for assholes, and boys that also like boys, and terrible timing...but apparently not for the right person...yet. how wonderful. this article made me laugh though, but not necessarily because it was funny...it just made me not feel so completely OUTRAGEOUS. it made me feel a little better about myself and my...hmm...Morals. lol
read the BLOG, wait...I guess you already are. im going on a not-being-too-mean spree. well, when it comes to blog-writing, apparently. its weird. but, i guess you could take it upon yourself to REALLY piss me off, so that I could have more material :) hahaha JK.
maybe ill give up writing "mean" blogs for lent. hmmm...wouldnt that be something? hahaha pah. yeah. like i could go 40-ish days without writing something the least bit angry-sounding.
maybe i will.
anyway...i'll stop with the pre-bloggageness now! lol
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So, I was looking around at random stuff as usual and came across this. I'm glad I'm not the only one that has thought like this woman...maybe my actions [[or lack there of]] aren't quite to her extent...but they're not far from it. And, I totally understand her reasoning...but I do have some expceptions. *cough
You should read this though...interesting...and you probably won't agree...but whatev. Let me know what you think:
http://www.dailynebraskan.com/opinion/trueblood_first_kiss_worth_waiting_for_perfect_person-1.1483060
TRUEBLOOD: First kiss worth waiting for perfect person
Bethany Trueblood
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Published: Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Updated: Tuesday, February 17, 2009
I’ll be the first to admit it: I’m 20 years old, and I still possess virgin lips.
This shocked one of my friends, who then asked why I have never been kissed.
I explained that the opportunity has never presented itself. I told him that I’m not one to randomly “hook-up” with anyone, nor have I been in a dating relationship. It was my dateless life that shocked him even more.
The lack of kisses and dates, I told him, goes hand-in-hand with my perpetual search to find the “right one,” so he who could be smooched has to first pass that test.
As I observe the number of physically intimate lives around me, I begin to wonder why I care so much about saving my untouched lips for “the one,” especially when it seems unlikely that a guy is saving his lips for me.
A quote by Drew Barrymore’s character Josie Geller in “Never Been Kissed,” one of my favorite movies, helps depict my reasoning:
“The right guy, he’s out there. I’m just not gonna go kiss a whole bunch of losers to get to him.”
It’s not kissing guys that Josie is concerned with; it’s kissing the right guy that she cares about.
Something I’ve been thinking about lately is what is meant by a kiss. Why do we choose to pucker up or not? I thought it would be interesting to get some input on the matter, so I conducted a couple surveys: one for people who have been kissed and one for those who have not. About 70 people took the first survey and 14 the latter. Across the board, many seem to associate kissing with romantic feelings and displaying affection for someone. Aside from that, though, the meaning of a kiss varies from person to person.
According to some of the responses, a kiss can be a greeting among friends, a tender farewell, or a way of “sealing a moment” in one’s memory. To others it could be the result of a mutually exclusive attraction between two people, an emotional union or a sign of devotion. A kiss might also be a romantic gesture meant to progress a relationship beyond friendship. In addition to these things, a number of people say kissing is simply fun.
For those experienced in lip-locking, the number of one’s past kissing partners generally exceeded more than five people, and the need to be in a relationship to exchange kisses was only somewhat important. Many of these people started kissing in their early teen years and say that they do not have any regrets about their first kiss; some, however, do wish that their first kiss was with their current dating partner. For those who have never been kissed, being in a relationship first is very important. Also, the strong consensus for the few who have never kissed is that a kiss should only be shared between two people who are in a committed relationship with one another.
I can strongly identify with the latter group of people and their thoughts about kissing. A kiss is something very intimate and special that should not be given lightly. I would concur that a kiss is an expression of one’s complete devotion and love for another person: something to be exchanged when two people know that they are truly in love.
Every guy I meet could potentially be my husband, but if he’s not mine, then he’s going to be somebody else’s. I want to be extra careful about who I share my affections with out of respect for the guy and for his future wife; I want my future husband to do the same for me. I don’t like the thought of my spouse-to-be exchanging saliva with other girls; when I kiss him someday, I want to know that I’m kissing him only, and not lips that may have traces of others’ DNA on them.
Although kissing may be a lot of fun, I wonder, what’s the point in kissing someone if you’re not in a committed relationship? It might be good “practice,” but I would rather enjoy the awkwardness of a first kiss with the man I want to be with for the rest of my life than become a pro at kissing guys who will one day belong to other women. I am okay with waiting to kiss a guy until I know that he is “the right one;” as Josie puts it, “the only person that you’re supposed to kiss for the rest of your life.”
As my survey results show, a kiss is what a person makes it out to be. It’s completely up to you to decide how and with whom you choose to display your affection. As for my “virgin lips,” they are going to keep waiting, no matter how long that might be.
Bethany Trueblood is a sophomore news editorial major. Reach her at bethanytrueblood@dailynebraskan.com.
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bahahahahaha
so this guy was one of the many responses to her article...it made me crack up hardcore...even if he was kind of a jerk to her...its still funny:
JUSTIN Wed Feb 18 2009 16:00
Look, I know it isn’t cool for a 21 year old guy like me to admit it, but I am proud of my status: I am a senior in college, and I’m still a hand virgin.
New friends are often surprised when they find out about this aspect of my life. They badger me about my life, and my goals, and what led to this point, as if it was just that easy. I tell them the same thing every time: it isn’t that I’m opposed to holding hands. It is just that the right girl has never entered my life. I’m just not the type of guy to go around clasping palms all willy-nilly, nor have I ever been in a tactile relationship.
The lack of finger-snuggling, you see, is part of my long-term goal to find The One. I long ago decided that I had to be sure that I wasn’t giving up my hand to just anyone. I never actually got around to determining criteria on who is The One but I’m working on the assumption here that angels with trumpets will give me the heads up when she wanders by.
I’m been pondering lately what exactly what it means to hold someone’s hand. Is it nature or nurture? Is it a result of what is in our society or what is in our genes? Or perhaps what is in our jeans? I decided to take a couple of surveys. Of the 50 people I surveyed, 37 of them had held hands before, while 13 had not.
According to some of the responses, hand-holding can be a greeting among friends, a tender farewell, or a way of “sealing a deal” that doesn’t involve paperwork. To others it could be the result of a mutually exclusive attraction between two people, an emotional union or a sign of devotion. Holding hands might also be a romantic gesture meant to progress a relationship beyond friendship. In addition to these things, a number of people say hand-holding is simply fun.
For those experienced in palm-grasping, the number of one’s past hand partners generally exceeded more than five people, and the need to be in a relationship to grab fingers was only somewhat important. Many of these people started holding in their early teen years and say that they do not have any regrets about their first hand; some, however, do wish that their first hand had been their current dating partner’s. For those who have never been held a hand, being in a relationship first is very important. Also, the strong consensus for the few who have never held a hand is that a holding should only be shared between two people who are in a committed relationship with one another.
I can strongly identify with the latter group of people and their thoughts about hand-holding. A hand is something very intimate and special that should not be touched lightly. I would concur that a grasp is an expression of one’s complete devotion and love for another person: something to be exchanged when two people know that they are truly in love.
Every girl I meet could potentially be my wife, but if she’s not mine, then she’s going to be somebody else’s. I want to be extra careful about whom I share my affections with out of respect for the girl and for her future husband; I want my future wife to do the same for me. I don’t like the thought of my spouse-to-be exchanging palm sweat with other guys; when I clutch her hand tight someday, I want to know that I’m touching her only, and not hands that may have traces of others’ DNA on them.
Although holding hands may be a lot of fun, I wonder, what’s the point in holding someone’s hand if you’re not in a committed relationship? It might be good “practice,” but I would rather enjoy the awkwardness of a first hand-hold with the woman I want to be with for the rest of my life than become a pro at holding the hands of girls who will one day belong to other men. I am okay with waiting to hold a girl’s hand until I know that she is “the right one;” as H. Jackson Brown, Jr. puts it, “Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.”
As my survey results show, a hand is what a person makes it out to be. It’s completely up to you to decide how and with whom you choose to display your affection. As for my “virgin hands,” they are going to keep waiting, no matter how long that might be.
fifteenth [[ I Want To Be The Spark That Lights You Up]]
Okay, so for the blogspot purposes, this isn't a typical kind of post. yeah, it's a survey of sorts, something that should be left strictly on myspace, but this one had some funny things that were obviously interesting enough to post on my myspace blog at one point in time, and i can't leave it out of this "new" blog. this one kind of reminded me of the "p.s. i love you" posting...all about the signs and everything happens for a reason stuff. well, in this case, everything just fit the sitch a tad too well in most of this. so, here goes:
-amused-
So my taste in music...is well, very old...if you go by what's on my itunes, apparently. lol but this was hilariously and awkwardly dead on quite a bit. weird. but, if you would like to help me add to my itunes, by all means, please do so. song suggestions? cds i can borrow to put on my comp? please do help. lol anyway...this is kind of funny--you should try it :)
RULES: copy and paste this into a note . . .
1. Open your digital music library (iTunes or otherwise)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every scene below, type the song that's playing
5. When you go to a new scene, press the next button
6. DON'T LIE and try to pretend you're cool. Like real life, take what the spin gives you.
7. Tag your friends (including the tagger).
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Opening Credits: 1, 2 Step by Ciara [[umm…okay]]
Waking Up: Rumor Has It by Clay Walker [[bahahaha this sounds like a funny dream…which makes sense in this case I suppose]]
Getting ready: I Want It That Way by the Backstreet Boys [[this probably would be something running through my mind as I’m getting ready. lol. And probably because of that funny dream that I mentioned above :/ ]]
Monday at work: It’s A Great Day To Be Alive by Travis Tritt [[I’m always in a good mood when I work @ NSS on Mondays! Being there makes for a great day, especially when you have cute parents call and ask umm…interesting…questions and that makes for the start –usually—of a pretty good week!]]
Falling In Love: Tonight I Wanna Cry by Keith Urban [[damn. That’s kinda sad. And sadly, I’m laughing. BC with my dating-luck, well, it seems to be pretty spot on]]
Fight Song: Bubbly by Colbie Caillat [[uhh…no idea]]
Breaking Up: To Me You’re Everything by 98* [[hah]]
One Night Stand: Angel by Sarah McLachlan [[oh my gosh. that’s funny]]
Life's Trials: No Such Thing by John Mayer [[after a convo I had today, just the title of this song, for this “scene,” made me laugh.]]
Mental Breakdown: Your Everything by Keith Urban [[what this song talks about would (((stress that word and add lots of sarcasm))) cause me a mental breakdown. Lol]]
Driving: Tell Me Baby by the Red Hot Chili Peppers [[yeah. . . ?]]
Flashback: Larger Than Life by the Backstreet Boys [[hmm..]]
Wedding: Take The Key by All Saints [[ ;) I’ve had this CD since like elementary school and heard this song for the first time while doing this…the lyrics def. sounded like something totally me. Hah. Random.]]
Final Battle: One More Day by Diamond Rio [[whoa]]
Funeral Song: Save Tonight by Eagle-Eye Cherry [[interesting]]
-amused-
So my taste in music...is well, very old...if you go by what's on my itunes, apparently. lol but this was hilariously and awkwardly dead on quite a bit. weird. but, if you would like to help me add to my itunes, by all means, please do so. song suggestions? cds i can borrow to put on my comp? please do help. lol anyway...this is kind of funny--you should try it :)
RULES: copy and paste this into a note . . .
1. Open your digital music library (iTunes or otherwise)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every scene below, type the song that's playing
5. When you go to a new scene, press the next button
6. DON'T LIE and try to pretend you're cool. Like real life, take what the spin gives you.
7. Tag your friends (including the tagger).
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Opening Credits: 1, 2 Step by Ciara [[umm…okay]]
Waking Up: Rumor Has It by Clay Walker [[bahahaha this sounds like a funny dream…which makes sense in this case I suppose]]
Getting ready: I Want It That Way by the Backstreet Boys [[this probably would be something running through my mind as I’m getting ready. lol. And probably because of that funny dream that I mentioned above :/ ]]
Monday at work: It’s A Great Day To Be Alive by Travis Tritt [[I’m always in a good mood when I work @ NSS on Mondays! Being there makes for a great day, especially when you have cute parents call and ask umm…interesting…questions and that makes for the start –usually—of a pretty good week!]]
Falling In Love: Tonight I Wanna Cry by Keith Urban [[damn. That’s kinda sad. And sadly, I’m laughing. BC with my dating-luck, well, it seems to be pretty spot on]]
Fight Song: Bubbly by Colbie Caillat [[uhh…no idea]]
Breaking Up: To Me You’re Everything by 98* [[hah]]
One Night Stand: Angel by Sarah McLachlan [[oh my gosh. that’s funny]]
Life's Trials: No Such Thing by John Mayer [[after a convo I had today, just the title of this song, for this “scene,” made me laugh.]]
Mental Breakdown: Your Everything by Keith Urban [[what this song talks about would (((stress that word and add lots of sarcasm))) cause me a mental breakdown. Lol]]
Driving: Tell Me Baby by the Red Hot Chili Peppers [[yeah. . . ?]]
Flashback: Larger Than Life by the Backstreet Boys [[hmm..]]
Wedding: Take The Key by All Saints [[ ;) I’ve had this CD since like elementary school and heard this song for the first time while doing this…the lyrics def. sounded like something totally me. Hah. Random.]]
Final Battle: One More Day by Diamond Rio [[whoa]]
Funeral Song: Save Tonight by Eagle-Eye Cherry [[interesting]]
fourteenth [[And you can tell me that you’re sorry, But I don’t believe you..♥TS]]
[[in response to a message that I recently received]]
First off, I wouldn't have responded in any other case...but you need to get your facts straight BEFORE you start accusing people of doing things.
As much as I wanted to figure out who your girlfriends were so that I could show them that one blog [[the one in response to your message the last time]], I never sent anything. I was really tempted to, trust me, but I wasn't going to be "that girl," "that person." I don't know what you were told, but I never sent anything...I don't even know who these girls were/are. So, unless I have some kind of telepathic skills, it wasn't me. Karma's a bitch. And, I guess it came back to bite you in the butt, and it sure does suck, huh? You have some things to figure out...and I suggest you get down to getting the right information.
And, I haven't written anything "bashing" you in quite a while. I never use names, I'm not that mean...well, yet. So, if you would like to assume that anytime/every time I say something that's "bashing" anyone, that that anyone is you, then by all means, think whatever you'd like. If you assume it's you who I'm talking about, then I guess that's just guilt, but whatever. Have you ever even considered that maybe I'm talking about other people...not you? Oh, but wait, it's always about you, I forgot. Sorry. You knew from the very beginning that that's what I do, I write. And, if you don't like it, then don't read it. I purposely don't use names. Nobody knows whom I'm talking about for sure, unless they ask, or in your case, I guess, assume it's you. You know I post what's on my mind...don't click the button to see what it says then. Same thing I told D...remember? At least I'm not going completely public...yet. It's not like I'm renting a billboard and doing what that one lady did..and I'm not writing songs... It could be worse. My profile is private…so only people that are my "friends" on MySpace can see…not everyone..yet.
You're telling me to get over it? That's kind of funny. Considering it's coming from the one that can't get a grip and tries to keep calling/texting. Honestly, that's what inspired that last bulletin that I posted as a blog. It's frustrating that you can't just get it...which I'm guessing you finally did already...I hope. Like the title...I love it when people piss me off sometimes...or make me angry...or whatever. It inspires some great writing. Sadly.
Like I told someone else not that long ago...yeah, you do get over what happened to an extent, but it never AND will never completely go away. You're always going to be bitter. And that, I am. I have said with every bulletin and whatever when it talks about forgiving, that I hold grudges. And, darn right, I hold grudges...but only for certain things, and I guess this is one of those certain things. But, has it ever crossed your mind that the "cheater" questions and stuff like that could also be talking about other people? Other people that also ruined the possibility of something good for the person they cheated on?
Jerkface is correct, omg! you finally paid attention to something I said. That must be why it's so cold outside. But...that's also a term that I've used in describing certain people in general, too...so once again, every time it's said, it's not necessarily intended for you.
-Your psycho bitch ex-[[that is what you called me...right?]]
P.S. I guess this is yet another blog :)
First off, I wouldn't have responded in any other case...but you need to get your facts straight BEFORE you start accusing people of doing things.
As much as I wanted to figure out who your girlfriends were so that I could show them that one blog [[the one in response to your message the last time]], I never sent anything. I was really tempted to, trust me, but I wasn't going to be "that girl," "that person." I don't know what you were told, but I never sent anything...I don't even know who these girls were/are. So, unless I have some kind of telepathic skills, it wasn't me. Karma's a bitch. And, I guess it came back to bite you in the butt, and it sure does suck, huh? You have some things to figure out...and I suggest you get down to getting the right information.
And, I haven't written anything "bashing" you in quite a while. I never use names, I'm not that mean...well, yet. So, if you would like to assume that anytime/every time I say something that's "bashing" anyone, that that anyone is you, then by all means, think whatever you'd like. If you assume it's you who I'm talking about, then I guess that's just guilt, but whatever. Have you ever even considered that maybe I'm talking about other people...not you? Oh, but wait, it's always about you, I forgot. Sorry. You knew from the very beginning that that's what I do, I write. And, if you don't like it, then don't read it. I purposely don't use names. Nobody knows whom I'm talking about for sure, unless they ask, or in your case, I guess, assume it's you. You know I post what's on my mind...don't click the button to see what it says then. Same thing I told D...remember? At least I'm not going completely public...yet. It's not like I'm renting a billboard and doing what that one lady did..and I'm not writing songs... It could be worse. My profile is private…so only people that are my "friends" on MySpace can see…not everyone..yet.
You're telling me to get over it? That's kind of funny. Considering it's coming from the one that can't get a grip and tries to keep calling/texting. Honestly, that's what inspired that last bulletin that I posted as a blog. It's frustrating that you can't just get it...which I'm guessing you finally did already...I hope. Like the title...I love it when people piss me off sometimes...or make me angry...or whatever. It inspires some great writing. Sadly.
Like I told someone else not that long ago...yeah, you do get over what happened to an extent, but it never AND will never completely go away. You're always going to be bitter. And that, I am. I have said with every bulletin and whatever when it talks about forgiving, that I hold grudges. And, darn right, I hold grudges...but only for certain things, and I guess this is one of those certain things. But, has it ever crossed your mind that the "cheater" questions and stuff like that could also be talking about other people? Other people that also ruined the possibility of something good for the person they cheated on?
Jerkface is correct, omg! you finally paid attention to something I said. That must be why it's so cold outside. But...that's also a term that I've used in describing certain people in general, too...so once again, every time it's said, it's not necessarily intended for you.
-Your psycho bitch ex-[[that is what you called me...right?]]
P.S. I guess this is yet another blog :)
thirteenth [[p.s. i love you.]]
"As with ALL things that are good, beautiful& great, sometimes we just need to let go of our fears."
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wow. so I just watched P.S. I Love You. Love that movie...and hate that movie, ya know? I hadn't planned to watch it tonight, but last night I went to the free Gavin concert on campus and figured I'd get there early because I was more interested to see who was opening for him, really, and just wondered if they were any good. To tell you the truth, I honestly had no idea what the band's name even was 'til I had been sitting there waiting for a while for it to start. It was a great feeling day outside, so I was like, ehhh...I'm already on campus...I'll just wait here 'til it starts and just read my book for a bit. While I'm sitting there though, I kept getting distracted by all the people passing by [and texting Rachel haha] that I really started thinking about things, and what happened the other night...and was still trying to figure things out, and thought to myself:
"ya know...people are always asking for signs, I think I will, too. but wait, what kind of sign could I even get for my situation... I have no idea. I mean, yeah, I wish someone or something would just tell me something about what I should do or think, or just where I stand in that situation in general...but I'm still not even sure like what could help me understand anything, except for one person, but whatever. i mean it's not like i'm saying this out loud, so I'm not actually going to get a sign, but it WOULD be nice, but whatever...anyway...just get this concert started. im freezing."
Well, low and behold this band NEEDTOBREATHE [love their name btw...no spaces] comes on and they sound pretty good or whatever and I'm like all right, this isn't so bad. Well, they finish their song and are like "okay this next one is from a movie, P.S. I Love You." And, well, that just kind of made me laugh, for a reason that only one person would understand, and who it's intended for to understand [well, with the exception of rachel and erica]. I was just like yeah, anyway. Then they started to sing this song and the words were crazy, not like psycho...just like unexpected! I was even just like am I hearing this right? So, yes, me being the nerd that I am --you can go ahead and say it-- I looked them up on the internet on my blackberry :/ haha and yes, i did hear them correctly. The song was "More Time." I mean, c'mon, seriously? I felt like He had given me my answer...or at least an answer for the time being. My sign. Weird how things manage to work, huh? I mean, who knows, if that song is really telling of what will actually happen, but for the time being, I was able to wipe away the tears and finally just take a breath. It was kind of relieving in a sense...not to mention totally unexpected. I know I say [A LOT] that everything happens for a reason. Well, there must have been a reason for me to decide to sit there waiting like two hours, "reading," for this concert to start, for a band that I didn't even know and never even heard of [[[kind of like The Escalators hahaha --sorry Rachel, I just had to throw that in there]]], I mean... me. the person that doesn't like to go anywhere by herself. to go sit, BY MYSELF, in front of the tower..on the main mall...freezing cold. Ya know? Times like these are sometimes some of the best times that could happen...those moments of realization. knowing that there is Someone out there that is listening to you...and that CAN read your mind, so you don't have to ask your questions out loud...He has your answers.
I'll leave you to check out this song on your own, as I have already written quite a bit...but I'll put the link of here to save you some time: http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/psiloveyou/moretime.htm
Phew...well, it definitely felt good to write. I hate writing, but I love it...kind of like that movie...except for not. lol. It mostly just felt good to put that thought out there...but anyway...so I was looking for something from the movie online and came across some good stuff that this blogger-person "nick" has written...I'll put some links here, actually maybe I'll go ahead and just copy and paste, too...but you should check him out, he writes some pretty good things:
http://6doi.net/lifestyle/dont-be-afraid-to-be-in-love.html
"Don't Be Afraid To Be In Love
20
JUL
Posted by nick as Lifestyle Add to del.icio.us
On my recent breakup, being only human, I had moments of saying to myself, "never again". Had I been setting myself up to be afraid to fall in love? I don't think so, but for others, this is a reality. That they cannot fall in love, because they are afraid.
As with all things that are good, beautiful, and great, sometimes we just need to let go of our fears. The gift of love, the gift of being in a relationship with someone you care about, and hopefully someone you fall in love with, is enough for me to hope, and hold on to that hope until that day comes, when I find the right person for me.
Don't be afraid to fall or be in love. Take it from me, after a brief, yet heartbreaking split from my girlfriend, I have come to realize all the good moments, the blessings, the undeniable love that we had for each other. To have had just one day in that kind of relationship, I think, is more than enough to take that risk, and experience this heartache.
Love, be in love, and accept love. This is the inspiration I know that has come from my past relationships. In the end, we have but one life, and if this is all we have, then experience everything, the good, the bad, and the sometimes inspirational and wonderful thing we call LOVE."
AND
what I included in my bulletin, "well deserved,...and well done," a bit ago:
"i have no idea who this lady is, but more power to her...guys, see what happens when you're not faithful? sucks for this steven guy, but i guess that's whatcha get..,
i mean, i thought my blog-writing and question answering were bad, but got the point across...
...taylor swift writes 1 country songs for the whole world to hear...
...i guess everyone out there just has their own way to cope...
...here's this lady, Emily's way:
http://6doi. net/web-finds/dont-cheat. html
notic e to all the guys out there...and ladies that will do this too...and anyone else: being cheated on is not fun...so dont expect the person thats been cheated on to be nice...and not have fun with it, because we definitely WILL make sure you AND everyone else knows what happened."
Yeah, so anyway...I need to be getting to bed soon, so that I can get up and be productive before a long night at work! So, I'll leave you with a quote from Gerard Butler's character, Gerry [the end of his last letter]:
"Don't be afraid to fall in love again. Watch out for that signal, when life as you know it ends. P.S. I will always love you."
Love that part. And now for something that I wrote someone not too long ago:
"You can't pass up opportunities because you don't know for sure what'll happen…take a chance…life is about risks."
As cliche as that may be...I totally believe it. You can't always know what's going to happen before it does, because then that just ruins the surprises. Maybe I should listen to myself sometimes, and just eat a damn strawberry or drink that blue powerade! :D I mean, I did take a bite of that Chicken Pizziola sub-wich and try that gum [[consider yourself lucky btw, nobody has ever been successful with getting to me try something "new"]] and it wasn't too bad. Haha, but seriously. If you always knew what was going to happen, it wouldn't be any fun getting there and it'd be totally BORING, ya know?
Anyway...so, for real this time, I'm done...for the night. :)
Goodnight!
P.S. lol jk ;)
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wow. so I just watched P.S. I Love You. Love that movie...and hate that movie, ya know? I hadn't planned to watch it tonight, but last night I went to the free Gavin concert on campus and figured I'd get there early because I was more interested to see who was opening for him, really, and just wondered if they were any good. To tell you the truth, I honestly had no idea what the band's name even was 'til I had been sitting there waiting for a while for it to start. It was a great feeling day outside, so I was like, ehhh...I'm already on campus...I'll just wait here 'til it starts and just read my book for a bit. While I'm sitting there though, I kept getting distracted by all the people passing by [and texting Rachel haha] that I really started thinking about things, and what happened the other night...and was still trying to figure things out, and thought to myself:
"ya know...people are always asking for signs, I think I will, too. but wait, what kind of sign could I even get for my situation... I have no idea. I mean, yeah, I wish someone or something would just tell me something about what I should do or think, or just where I stand in that situation in general...but I'm still not even sure like what could help me understand anything, except for one person, but whatever. i mean it's not like i'm saying this out loud, so I'm not actually going to get a sign, but it WOULD be nice, but whatever...anyway...just get this concert started. im freezing."
Well, low and behold this band NEEDTOBREATHE [love their name btw...no spaces] comes on and they sound pretty good or whatever and I'm like all right, this isn't so bad. Well, they finish their song and are like "okay this next one is from a movie, P.S. I Love You." And, well, that just kind of made me laugh, for a reason that only one person would understand, and who it's intended for to understand [well, with the exception of rachel and erica]. I was just like yeah, anyway. Then they started to sing this song and the words were crazy, not like psycho...just like unexpected! I was even just like am I hearing this right? So, yes, me being the nerd that I am --you can go ahead and say it-- I looked them up on the internet on my blackberry :/ haha and yes, i did hear them correctly. The song was "More Time." I mean, c'mon, seriously? I felt like He had given me my answer...or at least an answer for the time being. My sign. Weird how things manage to work, huh? I mean, who knows, if that song is really telling of what will actually happen, but for the time being, I was able to wipe away the tears and finally just take a breath. It was kind of relieving in a sense...not to mention totally unexpected. I know I say [A LOT] that everything happens for a reason. Well, there must have been a reason for me to decide to sit there waiting like two hours, "reading," for this concert to start, for a band that I didn't even know and never even heard of [[[kind of like The Escalators hahaha --sorry Rachel, I just had to throw that in there]]], I mean... me. the person that doesn't like to go anywhere by herself. to go sit, BY MYSELF, in front of the tower..on the main mall...freezing cold. Ya know? Times like these are sometimes some of the best times that could happen...those moments of realization. knowing that there is Someone out there that is listening to you...and that CAN read your mind, so you don't have to ask your questions out loud...He has your answers.
I'll leave you to check out this song on your own, as I have already written quite a bit...but I'll put the link of here to save you some time: http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/psiloveyou/moretime.htm
Phew...well, it definitely felt good to write. I hate writing, but I love it...kind of like that movie...except for not. lol. It mostly just felt good to put that thought out there...but anyway...so I was looking for something from the movie online and came across some good stuff that this blogger-person "nick" has written...I'll put some links here, actually maybe I'll go ahead and just copy and paste, too...but you should check him out, he writes some pretty good things:
http://6doi.net/lifestyle/dont-be-afraid-to-be-in-love.html
"Don't Be Afraid To Be In Love
20
JUL
Posted by nick as Lifestyle Add to del.icio.us
On my recent breakup, being only human, I had moments of saying to myself, "never again". Had I been setting myself up to be afraid to fall in love? I don't think so, but for others, this is a reality. That they cannot fall in love, because they are afraid.
As with all things that are good, beautiful, and great, sometimes we just need to let go of our fears. The gift of love, the gift of being in a relationship with someone you care about, and hopefully someone you fall in love with, is enough for me to hope, and hold on to that hope until that day comes, when I find the right person for me.
Don't be afraid to fall or be in love. Take it from me, after a brief, yet heartbreaking split from my girlfriend, I have come to realize all the good moments, the blessings, the undeniable love that we had for each other. To have had just one day in that kind of relationship, I think, is more than enough to take that risk, and experience this heartache.
Love, be in love, and accept love. This is the inspiration I know that has come from my past relationships. In the end, we have but one life, and if this is all we have, then experience everything, the good, the bad, and the sometimes inspirational and wonderful thing we call LOVE."
AND
what I included in my bulletin, "well deserved,...and well done," a bit ago:
"i have no idea who this lady is, but more power to her...guys, see what happens when you're not faithful? sucks for this steven guy, but i guess that's whatcha get..,
i mean, i thought my blog-writing and question answering were bad, but got the point across...
...taylor swift writes 1 country songs for the whole world to hear...
...i guess everyone out there just has their own way to cope...
...here's this lady, Emily's way:
http://6doi. net/web-finds/dont-cheat. html
notic e to all the guys out there...and ladies that will do this too...and anyone else: being cheated on is not fun...so dont expect the person thats been cheated on to be nice...and not have fun with it, because we definitely WILL make sure you AND everyone else knows what happened."
Yeah, so anyway...I need to be getting to bed soon, so that I can get up and be productive before a long night at work! So, I'll leave you with a quote from Gerard Butler's character, Gerry [the end of his last letter]:
"Don't be afraid to fall in love again. Watch out for that signal, when life as you know it ends. P.S. I will always love you."
Love that part. And now for something that I wrote someone not too long ago:
"You can't pass up opportunities because you don't know for sure what'll happen…take a chance…life is about risks."
As cliche as that may be...I totally believe it. You can't always know what's going to happen before it does, because then that just ruins the surprises. Maybe I should listen to myself sometimes, and just eat a damn strawberry or drink that blue powerade! :D I mean, I did take a bite of that Chicken Pizziola sub-wich and try that gum [[consider yourself lucky btw, nobody has ever been successful with getting to me try something "new"]] and it wasn't too bad. Haha, but seriously. If you always knew what was going to happen, it wouldn't be any fun getting there and it'd be totally BORING, ya know?
Anyway...so, for real this time, I'm done...for the night. :)
Goodnight!
P.S. lol jk ;)
i do own more than 13 pairs of shoes.
wow. it's been a while. i've been without internet, finally got it, then i got uber busy. but the posts will be starting up again!! woot!! i have to catch up to really have "a thought for every pair of shoes i own."
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